Nothing says "I've moved on" like another $5,000 attorney bill. 🔥

There's a particular post-divorce loop where someone files a new motion every few months — not because it's strategically sound, but because staying in litigation is a way of staying connected. Of staying relevant. Of continuing the relationship in the only form still available.

It's expensive. It's exhausting. And the children feel it.

The money in that legal barrel could have been a college fund, a therapy fund, or a vacation.

Let it go. For you, and for them. 💙